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Quirk ball elder millennial and yet another cat maniac

You may be familiar with Kanban as a team tool from your work in development, but have you considered using it as a tool in your ‘personal development’ journey?

Whether you’re a student or an experienced developer (or some combination of the two, because that’s pretty common in our industry) there is always beauty in progress over perfection.

Our current hustle culture constantly eggs us on to be so excited and pumped and ready for everything and anything we’re doing, that it’s often easy to lose sight of what you were trying to accomplish in the first place.

I get it, mad respect, but also, *cough* bullshit *cough*

Now don’t…

The journey is ongoing. As it should be.
Like many, there’s wisdom in your thirties that makes all the difference.
What really changed things for me, in particular, was my journey with ‘acceptance’.

In contrast, my 20’s was a rampant denial of anything that did not fit in with the illusion of my ideal self. Even though it was often at the pure detriment to my psyche; I was so busy playing the rejection game on blaring red flags, that I failed to see something very simple, but very powerful:

I’m flawed and there’s plenty of room for improvement


Ah, welcome my fellow red pill devourer. We have much to do.
To quickly recap, in my last blog post I began to unpack the following:

Why are we always so quick to focus on solely developing our coding abilities FIRST rather than our ability to thrive in its environment? Why are WE, the creators of code; secondary, at all?

2020 has thrown us a massive curve-ball, and like most — we’ve all been juggling with some feelings of discomfort for an extended period of time. …

I’ve always been a very visual learner.

And when you’ve always done things a certain way, you tend to take it for granted. During my university years, surrounded by hundreds of computer science peers, I was often surprised when I had to defend my elaborate doodles, drawings and lists.

I noticed back then, (and I’m talking 10+ years ago mind you) that there seemed to be some kind of rejection against “writing things down”. That having to write something down somehow reflected your inability to grasp a concept? Again, just to be clear, I’m talking about a computer science program…

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